Wednesday, May 25, 2005

Have You Ever Wondered That Jewelry Ads Promote Dowry?

Just switch on any regional Indian Channel at home. I am sure within a few minutes you will see a jewelry add. Before a movie starts at a cinema hall or during the interval you are literally thrust with adds from competing jewel houses trying to outwit each other. You will notice a common strain running through all these ads-all of them are addressed to the bride's parents. These ads are produced by a group of ‘emancipated’ men and women working for the likes of Mudra, Lintas or Ogilvy.Yet they use their creative minds to promote an illegal and culturally chauvinistic system-the dowry. Ingenious ways are devised by these geniuses to put the message across. For the western mind the whole concept of dowry may sound absurd. I am quite curious about what Christian who lives in Germany thinks about the existence and indirect promotion of such a system. If you have seen any of the western diamond ads the man (whether husband, fiancĂ© or lover),is seen winning the woman’s heart by gifting her a ring or whatever. Imagine the impact on would be mother-in-laws watching these ads, which are judiciously splashed in between their mega serials. They start wondering how much gold their would be daughter-in-laws would bring in. The parents of the bride on their turn feel that they owe it to their in laws who of course would diplomatically claim that “It is all for your daughter.” I am not claiming that without these ads dowry would vanish. Far from it. But we can most certainly do without these ads, which indirectly celebrate the dowry system. Personally these ads have helped me affirm what I have for long believed-advertisers are among the most socially irresponsible people.

5 comments:

Sridhar said...

These ads don't promote dowry. They promote consumerism. Trust me Siddarth, women do like jewels and and they are quite excited about these ads. These textile and jewellery shops are mushrooming because people have a lot of disposable income. And they are splurging. I don't see anything wrong in it.

Have you been to T.Nagar on the Akshaya Trithiya day? Go figure.

Siddharth said...

sridhar why arent the in-laws or the husband shown gifting the woman jewels?why is it always the bride's parents?

Klingsor said...

Although it may not have been as elaborated as the dowry-sytem in India, you have something similar to it also in Europe until the 19th century. It is the same idea: the parents of the bride should give something to the couple (because the man and his work have always been the economic basis of the family - but is housework no work?).
This practice vanished within the process of modernization, but there are still conservative parents today who think in these categories.
But today, when women have jobs, I think the dowry-system loses its sense.

Kanishkaa said...

It's just plain human nature.Women have an eye for jewellery,no matter how expensive the investment is.Dowry is illegal,but advertising jewellery with the intention of promoting dowry cannot be mentioned in the same light.No way.The root cause lies with India's archaic marriage system(or whatever) for bringing about dowry.That needs to be questioned first.After all ad agencies are just doing their jobs..serving their clients.Please keep them out of this.That is my request to you.

Anonymous said...

well i dont think these ads promote the dowry system...look at the de beeers a diamond is forever commercials...all of them have a man winning over a woman's love.. like the western commercials u have mentioned..besides..trust me women are quite obsessive of jewellery and its jus that the ad agenices have made a good study and identified their potential customers or target audience well..